3 Painful Truths About Life We ​​forget Too Quickly

Aldous Huxley said that “facts do not cease to exist just because you ignore them.” The fact that we do not want to see reality does not really suggest that things will change. But accepting reality, even if it hurts, gives us the chance to adapt. But some of these painful truths are ones we forget too quickly.

It does not matter if you lived a long or short life. Surely at some point you have learned an important lesson in a painful way, directly or indirectly. Sometimes it’s good to remember the truths we learned the hard way. And also those that we have seen others go through.

It is not about living in fear, but it is also not about living as if life is endless or as if we will always be able to enjoy the things we have at the moment. Truths can hurt, but they can also keep our feet on the ground. And above all, they help us to enjoy the moment with full awareness.

We all need a goal in life, or at least we should have it. Our goals require hard work and effort. To be productive is to work towards achieving these goals. One thing we must not forget is the fact that by doing something we will not necessarily get closer to what we are aiming for.

Many people spend their days doing things. They fill their schedules with activities and spend hour after hour in front of computer screens.  But to reach a goal, you do not have to do much; you just have to do what is necessary. The problem is that what is needed is often quite difficult and complicated. And it is often easier to deal with other things that may be labeled as the same thing.

If you want to achieve something in life, you really have to be productive. You need to think about what you need to do and do it effectively. Read about how to do something, plan your future and talk about what to do. Do things to try them out, to see what works in this first phase. But if you really want to go far and accomplish a lot, you need to take even more steps.

At the end of the day, what counts is not what you have done to achieve a specific thing, but what you actually achieved. It does not matter how much you worked, how much you invested, how many hours you put in, how you feel or what you said or thought. Stop doing things just to do them and start being responsible for and aware of your time and actions.

Making mistakes is human, and this is one of the most important of our truths. Some are unavoidable, others occur only because certain factors were not taken into account, which were not considered important. If you seek support in your mistakes, you will learn lessons you cannot find anywhere else.

When you learn from your mistakes, you improve. Only if you blame and scold yourself for your mistakes will you really fail. Because this prevents you from moving forward.

To learn from a mistake, it is necessary to forgive yourself and not feel ashamed. Every great mind has experienced failures from time to time. As long as you do not give up, nothing is completely lost.

The difference between the master and the disciple is the number of times both have failed. The master has failed many times. The more mistakes you make, the more chances you have to learn. And through that, you will learn more.

The average lifespan of humans is just over 80 years. In some areas and cultures, this cut may be slightly lower or higher. In any case, twenty years is nothing compared to the thousands of years of human history or the billions of years of the universe.

Death is catching up with all of us. The world will continue on its way and history will continue. But when someone in our lives passes away, we experience great dismay. Even if it was an expected death, something still changes within us.

How many things did the person who passed away have left to say or do? How many things did he miss? Was there anything you wanted to say to the person that was never said? Could you have changed anything for the person?

Many people realize when death is fast approaching that they have made lots of mistakes. That they have let too many chances slip by, that they have not lived freely. They realize that they have always been influenced by their surroundings. Our time in this life is short. But it is just enough if we only take full advantage of it, and if we live according to our values ​​and try to grow as human beings based on the awareness of who we are and what we do.